Why...

Why is it that some people use your weaknesses to make themselves better? They try to word problems so it must have been your fault. Why is it that because you have a trait that they don't want you to use, they make you feel bad about it? You aren't using it to hurt them, it is just something of your own nature. As people we are sensitive to different things, some are sensitive to light, others to touch, some to food, others to behaviour, some to minute details, others to minute sounds. It is what makes us us, us, humans. These things should not be used by others to make you feel bad on yourself, to allow them to escape a situation they may find awkward by blaming you. That is their weakness and not yours.